The Driving Force Behind My Success and struggle….
Ambition has been my driving force towards achieving my goals and realizing my dreams. It was the spark that ignited the fire of passion and determination in me. Of a truth, it has led me to this very height I have attained in life—the first billionaire lady. Most people my age can't boast of my numerous achievements and accomplishments. I have always been a high achiever, and my ambition for making it has pushed me beyond limits.
I remember vowing on my mother's sick bed, as her body turned cold, that I wasn't going to leave without my name known far and wide. A promise I made to myself and I adhered to keep. It was this unwavering spirit that transformed my life, and most times I was amazed by my abilities. While this was a powerful force to my success story. It was also my pitfall and self-enemy.
I saw myself as high and mighty—an invisible one who feared nothing or regarded anything. What could people offer me that I couldn't afford? "Nothing," I would always reply to my thoughts. It brought ills to my relationships with others, and I always saw myself struggling to surpass everyone. It was a good thing after all. Who said being successful is a bad thing?
However, as time went on, I began to realize the dark side of my ambition. I had become so focused on my goals that I neglected the people and relationships that truly mattered. I was so driven to succeed that I sacrificed my own well-being and happiness. I was constantly stressed, anxious, and overwhelmed, but I couldn't stop. I had to keep pushing forward, no matter the cost.
It wasn't until I hit rock bottom that I realized the true cost of my ambition. I had lost sight of what was truly important and I had paid the price. But it was also then that I realized that I had the power to change. I could choose to redefine what success meant to me, and I could choose to prioritize my own well-being and happiness.
Ambition is not inherently bad; in fact, it's a necessary driving force for achieving greatness. However, it's essential to learn to balance our ambition with other aspects of our lives. We must prioritize our relationships, our health, and our happiness, alongside our goals and aspirations.
When we allow ambition to consume us, we risk losing sight of what truly matters. We risk neglecting our loved ones, our physical and mental health, and our own sense of purpose and fulfillment. But when we learn to balance our ambition with other aspects of our lives, we can achieve greatness without sacrificing our well-being.
As I looked back on my journey, I realized that success wasn't just about achieving my goals or accumulating wealth. It was about living a life that was true to who I was, and cultivating relationships that brought joy and fulfillment. It was about finding happiness and contentment in the present moment, rather than constantly striving for more.
I learned that success is a journey, not a destination. It's a process of growth, learning, and evolution. And it's a choice that we must make every day, to prioritize our own well-being and happiness.
I leave YOU with these final words: Ambition has been the driving force behind my success, but it has also been my greatest challenge. It has pushed me to achieve greatness, but it has also led me down a path of destruction. However, through my journey, I have learned the importance of balancing ambition with other aspects of life,the importance of redefining success and prioritizing my own well-being and happiness. I hope that my story can serve as a reminder that ambition is not inherently bad, but it must be balanced with wisdom, self-awareness, and a commitment to our own well-being and happiness. it's never too late to make a change.