LIFE OFF SCHEDULE
We all had our lives perfectly planned out, didn't we? I know I did. I'd graduate with my first degree at 21, land my dream job, and reach the pinnacle of my career by 25. I'd have two additional degrees, a loving partner, and kids – the perfect blueprint. But then, life happened. Delays and setbacks threw my carefully laid plans off track.
Meanwhile, it seemed like my friends were soaring while I was struggling. They were getting accepted into their dream careers, getting married, and having children – all on schedule. Social media didn't help. Everyone's highlight reels made it easy to feel frustrated, stuck, and wonder, "Why me?"
I'd scroll through my ForYouPage, seeing friends' celebrations, weddings, and baby showers, and feel like I was stuck in a spot. It wasn't jealousy, but comparison. I evaluated myself based on their achievements, setting my goals to their standards, not mine. I was trying to live their life, on their terms. And guess what? It was exhausting.
Comparison is a thief. It steals our joy, peace, and contentment, fueling envy and strife, leaving ashes where love and joy once aspired. I realized that I had been comparing my behind-the-scenes moments to everyone else's highlight reels. I got caught up in the illusion that everyone else had their life together, except me.
But the truth is that everyone struggles. Nobody posts about their failures, setbacks, or doubts on social media. We only see the curated version of their lives, which creates unrealistic expectations and fosters disappointment.
Instead of getting caught up in the comparison game, let's shift our focus to the present moment. Let's appreciate the beauty that surrounds us – our health, family, freedom. Let's be thankful for the little victories and successes, even if they don't align with our original plans. Let's celebrate our unique journey, with all its twists and turns.
So, the next time you feel like your life is off schedule, remember that everyone's struggles are hidden behind their highlight reels. You are enough, just as you are. Your life may not be perfect, but it's yours, and it's beautiful.
Let's focus on our own path, with love and care. Let's celebrate our unique experiences that make us who we are. We are enough, and our lives are enough, just as they are.
Dear reader,
It's easy to get caught up in the comparison game, especially when it seems like everyone around us is achieving their goals and living their best lives. But the truth is, everyone's struggles are hidden behind their highlight reels. Life is unpredictable, and things don't always go according to plan. But let's embrace those delays and setbacks and work toward the new best thing that is yet to come..
It's easy to get caught up in the comparison game, especially when it seems like everyone around us is achieving their goals and living their best lives. But the truth is, everyone's struggles are hidden behind their highlight reels. Life is unpredictable, and things don't always go according to plan. But let's embrace those delays and setbacks and work toward the new best thing that is yet to come..