As I sit here, reminiscing about my past, I am reminded of the day I eagerly awaited leaving home after completing my WAEC exams. I was among the league of teens that wanted to leave home. No one to tell me what to do and when to do it. It felt like home was a cage, trapping a bird whose purpose was to fly. I wanted freedom, I guess. I would often drown myself in thoughts of how university life would be so pleasant and refreshing. The idea of making new friends, despite knowing it would be hard since I hardly make friends, and the thought of moving to a new environment made me want it more and more. Words couldn't possibly describe it, and nostalgia seemed like a word that shouldn't exist.
But here I am now, wanting to move back home, missing my sibling's tantrums and my parents' wahala. Funny, right? Home will always be where the heart is, regardless of the freedom your soul desires. For one reason or another, home is home, where the family dwells.
Home! Home!! Home!!!
Home is one word that holds different meanings for different individuals. It's a four-lettered word that encompasses more than just a physical place. For some, home is a physical place – a house, an apartment, or a cozy little cottage. It's a place where we rest our heads, share meals with loved ones, and create memories that last a lifetime.
For others, home is a sense of belonging – a feeling of being part of a community, a family, or a group of friends. It's a place where we feel accepted, loved, and supported. But what about those who don't have a traditional concept of home? What about those who are homeless, or who have had to flee their homes due to conflict or disaster?
For them, home might be a distant memory – a place they once knew and loved, but can no longer return to. Or it might be a hope for the future – a dream of one day finding a safe and welcoming place to call their own.
Christmas is a time when the concept of "home" takes on a deeper meaning. It's a time when we reflect on what home truly means to us, and how it makes us feel. As we celebrate Christmas this year, let's take a moment to reflect on what home truly means to us. Let's think about the people, places, and memories that make us feel safe, loved, and accepted.
And let's not forget those who are struggling to find their own sense of home. Let's offer them our support, our compassion, and our kindness. Because in the end, home is not just a physical place – it's a sense of belonging, of being loved and accepted for who we are. And that's something we can all strive to create, not just at Christmas, but every day of the year.
What does home mean to you? Share your thoughts and reflections in the comments below!